Saturday, 22 March 2008

THE OLD PHONE ON THE WALL

When I was quite young, my father had one of the first telephones in our neighbourhood. I remember the polished, old case fastened to the wall. The shiny receiver hung on the side of the box. I was too little to reach the telephone, but used to listen with fascination when my mother talked to it.

Then I discovered that somewhere inside the wonderful device lived an amazing person. Her name was "Information Please" and there was nothing she did not know. Information Please could supply anyone's number and the correct time.

My personal experience with the genie-in-a-bottle came one day while my mother was visiting a neighbor. Amusing myself at the tool bench in the basement, I whacked my finger with a hammer, the pain was terrible, but there seemed no point in crying because there was no one home to give sympathy.

I walked around the house sucking my throbbing finger, finally arriving at the stairway. The telephone! Quickly, I ran for the footstool in the parlor and dragged it to the landing. Climbing up, I unhooked the receiver in the parlor and held it to my ear. "Information, please" I said into the mouthpiece just above my head.

A click or two and a small clear voice spoke into my ear.

"Information."

"I hurt my finger..." I wailed into the phone, the tears came readily enough now that I had an audience.

"Isn't your mother home?" came the question.

"Nobody's home but me," I blubbered.

"Are you bleeding?" the voice asked.

"No," I replied. "I hit my finger with the hammer and it hurts."

"Can you open the icebox?" she asked.

I said I could.

"Then chip off a little bit of ice and hold it to your finger," said the voice.

After that, I called "Information Please" for everything. I asked her for help with my geography, and she told me where Philadelphi a was. She helped me with my math.

She told me my pet chipmunk that I had caught in the park just the day before, would eat fruit and nuts.

Then, there was the time Petey, our pet canary, died. I called,

Information Please," and told her the sad story. She listened, and then said things grown-ups say to soothe a child. But I was not consoled. I asked her, "Why is it that birds should sing so beautifully and bring joy to all families, only to end up as a heap of feathers on the bottom of a cage?"

She must have sensed my deep concern, for she said quietly, "Wayne always remember that there are other worlds to sing in."

Somehow I felt better.

Another day I was on the telephone, "Information Please."

"Information," said in the now familiar voice. "How do I spell fix?" I asked.

All this took place in a small town in the Pacific Northwest. When I was nine years old, we moved across the country to Boston. I missed my friend very much. "Information Please" belonged in that old wooden box back home and I somehow never thought of trying the shiny new phone that sat on the table in the hall. As I grew into my teens, the memories of those childhood conversations never really left me..

Often, in moments of doubt and perplexity I would recall the serene sense of security I had then. I appreciated now how patient, understanding, and kind she was to have spent her time on a little boy.

A few years later, on my way west to college, my plane put down in Seattle. I had about a half-hour or so between planes. I spent 15 minutes or so on the phone with my sister, who lived there now. Then without thinking what I was doing, I dialed my hometown operator and said, "Information Please."

Miraculously, I heard the small, clear voice I knew so well.

"Information."

I hadn't planned this, but I heard myself saying, "Could you please tell me how to spell fix?"

There was a long pause. Then came the soft spoken answer, "I guess your finger must have healed by now."

I laughed, "So it's really you," I said. "I wonder if you have any idea how much you meant to me during that time?"

I wonder," she said, "if you know how much your call meant to me.

I never had any children and I used to look forward to your calls."

I told her how often I had thought of her over the years and I asked if I could call her again when I came back to visit my sister.

"Please do", she said. "Just ask for Sally."

Three months later I was back in Seattle.. A different voice answered,

"Information." I asked for Sally.

"Are you a friend?" she said.

"Yes, a very old friend," I answered.

"I'm sorry to have to tell you this," she said. "Sally had been working part-time the last few years because she was sick. She died five weeks ago."

Before I could hang up she said, "Wait a minute, did you say your name was Wayne?" "Yes." I answered.

"Well, Sally left a message for you.. She wrote it down in case you called.

Let me read it to you."

The note said, "Tell him there are other worlds to sing in.

He'll know what I mean."

I thanked her and hung up. I knew what Sally meant.

Never underestimate the impression you may make on others.

Whose life have you touched today?

Wednesday, 5 March 2008

Cool reference for me!

Reference from Ruth, mum of G

Jennifer XXX is, in my experience, a highly professional and first rate
childminder. From the moment I met her and throughout the time that she looked
after my daughter, I found her to be approachable, friendly, fun, reassuring, and
utterly reliable. Her attention to detail, professionalism, health and safety standards
and record keeping are outstanding. She provides a wide range of daily activities,
from arts and crafts, to music, to outdoor play, ball games, visits to the park, and
cooking, to name a few. She works closely with mothers to agree a daily sleep/
wake/meal routine that meets the changing needs of the individual child whilst also
fitting around the other children in her care.

My daughter loved spending time with her and visibly benefited from the social
interaction with other children, as well as the stimulation and learning opportunities
that Jennifer provided her with. Most weeks she would return home having learned
some new skill or progressed a developing skill. Personally I really valued Jennifer’s
partnership – first and foremost she was always keen to know my preferences
~ regarding my daughter’s care and development, whilst at the same time she was
able to offer valuable insights and suggestions. A good example of this was potty
training – a task that was made much easier for me by Jennifer’s skill,
encouragement, and her care to ensure that she continued the same approach that
I had begun at home. I wholeheartedly recommend her.

Thursday, 21 February 2008

Nature

Exercise and playing in the fresh air is important. We go out at least once a day (dependent on the weather), if not twice, and go for walks and play in the garden, park, common and community. This is not only a time of exercise, but also a time of learning.

I have a love of birds and all things nature, and use this time to teach him/her about the trees, leaves, the birds, the rabbits, the horses, the dogs, the ducks, the sky and the clouds etc. We pop on our sun cream and our hats and out we go!

I think it’s important for children to develop a love for, and appreciation of, nature from a young age ~ coming home with feathers, seed pods and leaves with exciting veins for creative activities when they reach a certain age!

Sunday, 17 February 2008

Diploma in Childminding Practice

I have started this 5 Unit diploma with NEC College. It offers further knowledge and expertise in childcare, home education, nutrition, routine etc. I am really enjoying this course and implementing new found knowledge in my childminding setting!


I am a tad despondant about this though, as I have yet to send in my FIRST assignment!!! I have started it, and plan to send it along with the second... there has just been so much ging on these past few months, with childminding paperwork (esp the EYFS!), my dad's passing, trying to have a baby etc.!

Saturday, 16 February 2008

A good reference has come through!

Reference from Sarah-Jane, mum of E

E was with Jen for about 6 months and during that time was very happy.
Jen took the kids on outings to Wimbledon common, did craft projects with them
and even managed to get them all baking.

Jen's house was always very clean and tidy (despite having 3 toddlers messing
it up all the time) and there was always a welcoming smile and hug when E arrived.
I can recommend Jen as a very caring and considerate childminder who is
committed to seeing children develop through play and fun.

Monday, 11 February 2008

10 Feb 2008 ~ VT Meet

- Tower Bridge
Tower Bridge
Met up with some pals, had some good food at The Hide, then took a stroll along the lovely old vs new London south bank, photographing the illuminated buildings, bridges and ships along the way... twas a lovely day!

- The hungry people!
The hungry people!

- Natalie and Jo
Natalie and Jo

- Holger, Sue and Jo
Holger, Sue and Jo



Tuesday, 5 February 2008

New York, what a juicy big apple!

New York is a city I have always wanted to visit.

Hubby and I went for a week in mid winter (Jan 2008), after having spent Christmas with family in Hickory, North Carolina.

To say that New York was a culture shock is an understatement! We arrived on New Year's Eve and it was madness... transport was down, there were millions of people and police around, and here were we, two South Africans with 2 huge red suitcases, trying to find our way through the throngs to our hotel, weary, hungry and cold.

This photo is an artistic moving shot my hubby took whilst we were on the open top bus at night, in the freezing cold.. we love this shot! Step inside my virtualtourist page and see what our week in new York meant to us! :)

New York City Travel Page

Sunday, 3 February 2008

Nature walks

Exercise and playing in the fresh air is important. We go out at least once a day (dependent on the weather), if not twice, and go for walks and play in the garden, park, common and community. This is not only a time of exercise, but also a time of learning.

I have a love of birds and all things nature, and use this time to teach him/her about the trees, leaves, the birds, the rabbits, the horses, the dogs, the ducks, the sky and the clouds etc. We pop on our sun cream and our hats and out we go!

I think it's important for children to develop a love for, and appreciation of, nature from a young age ~ coming home with feathers, seed pods and leaves with exciting veins for creative activities when they reach a certain age!

Saturday, 2 February 2008

Babysitting... to do or not?

I provide a babysitting service for my mindees primarily. If I am unavailable to babysit I have two other trusted childcare workers I highly recommend. One is a qualified primary school teacher (my sister!) who is currently nannying, and the other is an OFSTED registered childminder. They both live locally to me.

I am actually so busy thouhg - I am keen to help the parents, but aLSO KEEN not to, if that makes sense? At least I can pass the work onto others...


Saturday, 26 January 2008

25 Jan 2008 ~ VT meet

- angie, sue, jo, carl, kristi, gillian, kat
angie, sue, jo, carl, kristi, gillian, kat
Met up with a group of pals, and ate and laughed and ate some more!
Kristi is doing an interesting squat in this shot... hmmm.
Carl was a big surprise for me!
What a delight to see him, and everyone else... especially, of course, my dear Kat and Kristi.

- gillian and kat
gillian and kat

I love this shot of this awesome woman, Kat.

- jen and iris
jen and iris