(b) Do they ever take into account some of us have partners... and maybe our partner earns a (decent!) wage too... ?
Our children's parents are our clients. We have a symbiotic relationship, which should be one of respect. It is not respectful to make comments like this to people who offer you services.
We got a big flat screen earlier this year... hubby has been after one for the last 6 years... and we had this tiny little dinky thing. We saw it was a super deal and got it. Parents naturally remarked on it (no 'are we paying you too much comments', just general comments) and I found myself saying 'hubby bought it as it was a great deal'.... which was true, but I needn't have said it.
I also got some clothes for my nephews and nieces overseas, as we don't see them very often, when we send parcels we tend to spoil them!!! I had these items on the dining room table and I noticed a parent looking at the label and the price.... I nearly remarked on it but didn't. I too am allowed to shop at Debenhams!!!
As we work in our home I think we feel more exposed. I know I do. Your home is a reflection of you.
But you know what??? If I get something new I will not hide it/feel I need to justify it.. because I work VERY hard, and have earned it.
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